FRIENDSHIP-LOVE--LOVE-FRIENDSHIP

'I think we should talk once in a week now,' she said. I was surprised. All of a sudden why was she talking like that? My obvious reaction was, 'what? why? what happened?'.

'I am worried about you.'

'And why so ?'

'kyu matlab, muze darr lag raha hai.' she replied.

And I was seriously confused, what the hell was she trying to tell. I had no idea and not a single clue. Alright now, to be clear on my side, I am going for my higher studies in few months. The place where I will be going is not yet decided, (as usual, still confused). So I am trying to talk to her as much as I can and as long as I am in India. Who knows when I go, how often we could talk.

And now talking about her reply, was she afraid of talking to me? Or just me? I said,'darr, what the hell are you talking? Of what? Me?'. My every sentence had lots and lots of questions.

'No, of course not you, what I am trying to say is, if you miss me too much and keep going like this, I am afraid, you would start feeling for me in a different way, to be very specific, I think, you would fall in love with me.' She gave the explanation to her statement. And I must say, really a very specific explanation.

Man, I was bowled, clean bowled. I went of out words which I had learnt since I was born.

''Oye, noway, I mean.. , how can you.. , no.. , no, why do u think like this, you are my best friend, and will always be, the relationship we share is never going to change, we will be like this forever.' I tried to prevent myself.

'You even said that you would not miss me, but your behavior is quite ironic to what you said, isn't it ?' Now she had started to raise questions.

'Hey, common now, missing is friend is not a big deal, it is normal'

'No doubt it is, but the way you are behaving, it is not at all normal.'

Now what was I suppose to say? 'No.' I shouted.

'Yes you are.' Came the reply at the lightning speed.

'See, believe me, I am not going to change or rather my feelings are not going to change.' I said, as I had to say something to stop her from that topic.

'I hope,' she said and continued, 'hey have to go now, bbye, and again, I just hope.' And cut the call.

'I also just hope that I don't.' I said to my self and continued with my work.

THE NEXT DAY

Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh.....
Its boring, this particular day is very very boring. Yesterday was my birthday, it was my day, from 11.30 pm on 18th, I started getting calls to wish me. It was a great fun yesterday. Calls, messages, mails, scraps everything was awesome. Family and friends together, just wow.

Even I enjoyed the BEATING my friends gave in the name of BIRTHDAY BUMPS yesterday. God, they really cracked me, hit me real bad.....
Friends whom I have not heard from in months and even years in some cases wished me. It feels really really good. And yes to mention, two of my friends brought bouquets for me, two of them brought pastries for me and the rest came empty handed, (not even a greeting card) ...

The day passed, but not to forget, it indeed was a great day and full of enjoyment. Today 20th march, the next day of my birthday, seems like every single person in this world has forgotten me. All of a sudden I am vanished in the thin air. This is what makes the next day very very boring. Yesterday, so much attention and today, dushhhhhhhhhh, nothing.

Well its kinda boring but not to be sad because yesterday, which was my day, I enjoyed it to the fullest. But yes, as the last blog said "NO PARTY THIS YEAR", I followed it, but my friends didn't.
This is for why our friends are........aren't they ????????????

BEST FRIEND

Out of many friends, 

Few make a very special place in our heart ....

We just hope life never takes us apart....

One of my best friend, she is there for everything, a great, great friend.

A friend for lifetime. Met her in college, was with me in first year.

Though, our branches were different, mine was ETC and she was in ETRX, we connected very well, at least we were in the same ELECTRONICS department. The friendship grew with time, grew to a extent that WE became a habit.

Last week I was in Pune for the weekend. On Monday, when I was leaving, she called. Said got a call for the interview in Pune, that of course was a great news. I came back to Nagpur and the very next day she left for Pune, for the interview. Came to know she got selected, again, indeed, I was very happy, but soon realized she now had to shift to Pune. She will be leaving me now, this was to happen but didn't see this one coming so soon and sudden !!!

Tried to spend as much time with her, we had only 3 days. Fought with her, and then tried to make her laugh, laughed with her, had a very good time, which I will remember for ever.

She left today, 17Th march, two days before my birthday, (am surely not celebrating my birthday this year ...  )

Just now returned home, went to drop her off to the bus stand..

Very very very happy for her but a bit sad for me..

Well this is life, whatever happens, happens for good .................

You got to think like this to be happy.